J.J. Watt is 'trying' to find a girlfriend, but is unsuccessful

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Texans star J.J. Watt is admired by a lot of people, but he told Night net.com that he's struggling to find love.Watt said he's trying, and someday he wants to settle down with a wife and kids, but right now he has a busy schedule that doesn't allow much social time. He opened up about his dating life, or lack thereof. MORE: Photos for would-be Watt suitors | Watt on MTV's 'College Life'"People [I know] think that I've never dated before, or whatever," he said. "But I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm just unsuccessful. My schedule's so crazy and life's so busy, it just hasn't worked. "Trust me, I would love to have a wife and kids. I would very much enjoy that. But I also know that you have to be in the right place to do that. You have to find the right situation, and you have to be in that right mindset where you can give everything you have to that. Because whatever I do, I want to be the best at. I want to be the best husband. I want to be the best father. And I need to make sure that I have figured out the proper balance in my life so that I can give the proper time and energy that's needed for that situation." That makes sense. Watt has clearly given his all to become the Night net's best defensive player — an honor he was given last year. But putting in all that work to be the best at his craft leaves him with little time to focus on other aspects of his life.Another reason Watt is hesitant is because he's not sure about the motives some women might have when making advances towards him. Do they want to date him to become "J.J. Watt's girlfriend" or do they actually want to get to know the real person?MORE: Watt as a magazine cover boy, behind the scenes"That's why it's so difficult. You don't know who wants you for you, who wants you for the money, who wants you for the fame," he said. "... But you can't think about love on paper like that. If you're thinking like that — Does this person want me for me? — then you're gonna have a hell of a hard time falling in love, 'cause you're constantly thinking about what they look like on paper. Trust me, it's a lot more difficult than I wish it was — but I'm sure hoping to find the right one."There were rumors of Watt dating tennis star Caroline Wozniacki as the two were seen together during the offseason, but the Texans star seemed to imply they weren't dating.